Thoughtful Ways to Include Your Grandparents in Your Westminster, Maryland Wedding
- crkrone46
- Aug 13
- 5 min read
Montagu Meadows is a barn wedding venue located in Carroll County, Maryland. As the owner of this beautiful venue for over 8 years, I have had the pleasure of meeting a lot of wonderful families. One of the most rememberable memories I cherish is witnessing the love between the couple and their grandparents. Your wedding day is a celebration of love, commitment, and the family and friends who helped shape your journey. For many couples, grandparents hold a particularly special place in their hearts. They’ve offered wisdom, unconditional love, and maybe even a few old-fashioned relationship tips that still ring true today. Including them in your wedding is a meaningful way to honor their legacy and let them share in your joy.
If you’re planning your wedding here in Westminster, Maryland, especially at a
venue like Montagu Meadows, with its timeless charm, historic buildings, and family-centered feel, there are so many personal and heartfelt ways to celebrate your grandparents. Here are some of our favorite ideas:
1. Walk Down the Aisle With Them
Tradition often says parents walk you down the aisle, but if your grandparents played a central role in raising or supporting you, consider inviting them to escort you. It’s a beautiful way to acknowledge their importance in your life and create a memory neither of you will ever forget.
2. Ring Bearer or Flower Grandparents
Why should the kids have all the fun? Trendy and heartwarming, having your grandparents act as flower grandmas or ring bearer granddads adds both charm and laughter to your ceremony. It’s also a sweet surprise that guests will love.
3. Let Them Give a Wedding Toast or Say a Prayer
Grandparents often have a graceful way with words. If they’re comfortable speaking in front of a crowd, ask them to give a toast or a blessing during the reception or ceremony. Their heartfelt words will likely be some of the most touching moments of the day.
4. Display Their Wedding Photos
What better way to celebrate family love is to create a special table or display featuring your grandparents’ wedding photos. Not only is it a nod to the lasting power of love, but it can also be a beautiful conversation starter for guests. It’s especially fitting at a vintage-inspired venue like Montagu Meadows, a wedding venue located near Baltimore, Maryland.
5. Share a Special Wedding Dance
A first dance isn’t just for newlyweds. Consider a special dance dedicated to
your grandparents, perhaps to their wedding song. Whether it’s just the two of them dancing or you are joining them, it’s a sweet and memorable tribute.
6. Corsage or Boutonniere to Wear
Give your grandparents a corsage or boutonniere to wear as a visible symbol of your gratitude. It’s a small gesture that makes a big statement. They are VIPs and very important family members on your big day.
7. Write Them a Letter or Give a Thoughtful Gift
A handwritten letter or small keepsake just for your grandparents can be a touching way to say thank you. Whether it’s delivered privately before the ceremony or read aloud at your reception, this simple gesture speaks volumes and will be memorable moment for all of you.
8. Incorporate Something From Their Wedding
If your grandparents still have their wedding cake topper, veil, or even a favorite song, find a way to include it in your wedding day. This adds sentimental value and connects your celebration with theirs across generations.
9. Honor Them in Your Vows or Speech
During your vows or thank-you speech, take a moment to recognize your grandparents. Acknowledge their example of love, thank them for their support, or simply share how happy you are they could be part of your day.
At Montagu Meadows, we’ve seen many beautiful moments between couples and their grandparents that bring generations together in celebration. Weddings are the joining of two families and starting with your grandparents makes this extra special. Whether it’s a quiet moment by the pond or a joyful dance in the barn, these special gestures remind us all that love no matter the decade never goes out of style.
Planning a wedding that celebrates your family’s story? Schedule a tour at Montagu Meadows, a barn wedding venue in Westminster, MD and let us help
you create beautiful memories that honor every generation.
Our History, Your Love Story – Montagu Meadows, an Historic Barn Wedding Venue in Westminster, MD
Looking for a stunning affordable Maryland barn wedding venue? Consider touring the Historic Montagu Meadows Wedding Venue located in the countryside of Carroll County, MD. Montagu Meadows Wedding Venue offers full-size dream weddings with receptions and intimate/elopement packages. Our Westminster, Maryland barn wedding venue offers a breathtaking setting with a team dedicated to making your wedding day perfect. Montagu Meadows has stunning
gardens and serene water views, creating a picturesque backdrop for unforgettable celebrations. We also proudly support the LGBTQ couples in a warm, inclusive environment. If you are looking for an elegant, rustic, and unforgettable wedding that is pet-friendly, contact us to schedule a tour.
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Location: Westminster, MD in Carroll County
Montagu Meadows Wedding Venue happily serves the entire Carroll County, Maryland area which includes Sykesville, Eldersburg, Woodbine, Mount Airy, Taneytown, New Windsor, Union Bridge, Westminster, Manchester, Hampstead, and Lineboro. We also serve other Maryland Counties: Anne Arundel, Howard, Frederick, Baltimore, Baltimore City, Harford, Montgomery, Prince George’s and Washington and along with Southern Pennsylvania which includes Adams, Lancaster, Franklin and York Counties.
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